Business Insider talked to talked to M. Gary Neuman,
a psychotherapist and author, who said there are six scientifically
proven things you can do to increase your chances of your crush turning
into something more.
Here they are.
1. Maintaining eye contact.
According to a study by Harvard psychologist Zick Rubin, couples who
are really in love look at each other while they were talking 75 percent
of the time, so try to resist the urge to nervously look away. It's so
tempting, I know.
2. Be interested in who they are as a person and listen to everything they say.
According
to studies by the University of Nevada and the University of
Washington, being a good listener is a huge part of having someone fall
in love with you.
Neuman says people love it when other people take an
interest in them and don't immediately change the conversation so they
can talk about themselves right away.
He says to ask follow-up questions
and respond compassionately to what the other person is saying, which
in my opinion is something everyone should do more of in general.
3. Make them feel appreciated and special.
Neuman says that 48 percent of couples he's talked to have said they
don't feel appreciated by their partner, so if you can make your crush
feel like you appreciate everything they do and everything they are,
they're incredibly likely to fall for you.
4. Smile a lot.
According to a study at Drake University, smiling makes you look more
attractive, more engaging, and it makes you look like a winner, all of
which increase how hot and confident you look to someone who you're
hoping will become your person.
Neuman says touching your partner often increases your sense of comfort and intimacy with them. So all those little arm touches you feel compelled to do when your crush is around are actually working in your favor in a big way.
6. Embrace what the other person is most passionate about.
Neuman says that when someone talks about something they're really passionate about, they're often sharing a part of themselves that's vulnerable, so if you can appreciate that thing they love, they're likely to be crazy about you in return.
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